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| by Russell Jackson //
The feeling of being “dumped” is devastating and painful.
No woman likes being left for another! If you are wondering how to keep
your man, you should first know why men leave women in a relationship.
Here are some of the most common reasons that you should be aware of.
Bored to death
Boredom can cause havoc in a relationship. Though it takes two to clap
and both partners are responsible to keep their relationship alive and
exciting, sometimes women can cause the major damage! Have you allowed
your relationship to become predictable and boring? Does your man hate
to come home to you? Ask your self these questions and put right the
wrongs immediately.
Incompatibility
This means that after a while he has realized that you are not
compatible and have nothing in common. This also means that there was a
whole lot of pretense and lies involved to keep each other interested in
the beginning. Once the honeymoon period is over – the real character
is revealed and familiarity now breeds a lot of contempt for each other.
Nagging and fighting
A man can only take that much! No woman who nags and argues incessantly
can hope to keep her man. He will refuse to stay with a nit picker who
constantly fights, argues and nags at him. His interest will naturally
fade!
No sexual satisfaction
It is extremely important for a man to be sexually satisfied in his
home. Have you been too tired or have too many headaches lately? If you
have not been keeping your man physically satisfied then he is bound to
look elsewhere for satisfaction.
Temptation to cheat
If a woman stops taking care of her looks, body and appearance and turns
dowdy, sloppy and fat, her man will be easily fall to temptation! A
prettier female colleague at the office who pays him attention will
become more attractive. Stop this from happening by being as attractive
and beautiful as ever!
Too much responsibility
Sometimes the man is roped into a relationship without being actually
ready for it. This immaturity and unwillingness to commit that is
underlying makes him want to pull out of the relationship later on.
Besides if the woman is expecting too much from him he will find it
difficult to shoulder all the responsibility and will withdraw from the
relationship.
No respect
No matter who the real breadwinner is in the family, the woman has to
pay her man respect and honor. A man who is being ignored and taken for
granted will slowly but surely begin to lose interest and will want to
leave
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